B, C, and D. Guess what....this has happened to all of us guys at one point or another. I remember a girl who wanted me to drive all the way up to Roanoke to meet her after work. I had not planned on having the make the drive, and it was right after work, so I had to drive through a bit heavier traffic. I forget where we met at, but we met at a restaurant. I offered to buy her dinner, but she didn't want anything. When I was trying to talk to her, she kept looking over my shoulder at someone else, not really paying attention to me. After about a half an hour, she thanked me for meeting her and she had to get to another appointment with friends and left.
You know, it just happens. While I didn't have to buy her dinner, I did have to drive an hour to see her, and then she acted completely uninterested the whole time we were there. You just chalk it up as a band experience and move on.
Glad I don't have to go through that stuff anymore.